Looking back through pictures. This is a little over 2 years ago. Sometimes I miss my asymmetrical hair. Also, this was a hella fun day. I feel like we look so different and really are different people now. So strange.
To the anonymous who left this venomous message for my best friend,
Who the hell are you to tell him these things? I spend 80% of my time with this man and I can tell you that the man he chooses to spend his life with will be luckier than he could even imagine. Believe me when I say they there are plenty of boys who want to be his boyfriend, but there in lies the problem. He deserves a man, which you clearly are not. Your desire to hide in anonymity expresses that quite nicely. Your desire to hurt someone, presumably someone you don’t know, with unkind words tells me that. Are you under the impression that people are waiting in line to marry someone like you with no empathy, couth or kindness?
My best friend is an amazing man. I’ll admit that he is also a complicated man, but if you’re looking for someone simple enjoy your time in jail wasting away for pedophilia. We’re all complicated. We’ve all got a past that despite convincing ourselves it will stay there, does not always. We all have a burden on our back, sometimes one of our own creation, sometimes one thrown upon us by the world. That doesn’t make us unlovable, that makes us human. He has a beautiful soul filled with thoughts beyond those I can even comprehend. He has talent that can only be justified by the presence of a higher power. He has a heart the size of a small country and a great ability to love. He is, quite lamely put, a complete catch. He’s adorable almost to a fault, intelligent without being boastful and an overall awesome person. I count myself lucky to have him in my life. Some man, some day, will agree and realize the gift he’s been given. He is truly that, a gift.
As for saying ‘no one cares’, that’s just ludicrous. I care deeply. I wish that your words didn’t have any impact on him since it’s clear they are just the lashing out of a soul who’s also hurting. However, they clearly do impact him because as I’ve said he’s human. Words do hurt, no matter what the childhood rhyme may attempt to have us believe. I sincerely hope that you look at yourself long and hard in the mirror because the things we hate in others is very likely the things we hate in ourselves.
Do you feel as though no one likes you, anonymous? Perhaps it’s time to look inwardly instead of focusing that energy outward onto veritable strangers. I urge you to sit and evaluate before you send these types of messages again.